Step-by-step instructions and tips are provided for each role play. Also see the Role Play Tips listed below to use as a guide. Role playing is an excellent way to lose your inhibitions and take a brief step outside of yourself and the daily grind of life…if only for a moment!
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ROLE PLAY TIPS
For a successful role play, you must get completely into your character and absolutely lose who you are during your play time. Role play is acting out a fantasy. ‘Regular you’ must leave the premises (sorry…bye-bye!) Whichever character you choose to play, make sure they have a different personality from your own, a different look, and a different attitude. Owning your character and being your character is key to good role playing!
Whatever role play scenario you are going plan, make sure you get the right props! Role play attire and props are major players which help make your fantasy seem as real as possible. There are role plays you won’t need to have anything special, just your imagination. However, most role plays you will need to buy some fun costume’s. Check out THE SIM SHOP for role play attire, props, and accessories.
Do not feel like you are stuck in the house for a role play scenario. Many will happen there, yes. But don’t exclude public places, your cars, or hooking up at a spot you individually or mutually decide upon. The sky and your imagination is the limit to how much fun you can have with your role play adventures.
If you can, try to do the suggested role play each month. This is often enough where you can create a good buildup and excitement for each role play, but not too often where it feels like anything resembling a routine. Plan scenarios out together, as well as alone to surprise each other once in a while. The anticipation and planning of a role play is half the fun!
I understand you might feel out of your element with this type of sex play, especially if you’ve never done it before. But honestly, don’t knock it till you try it. I’ve had some of the most passionate and hot sex due to the sexual buildup created through these role play games. It is a chance to become totally uninhibited and escape from routine, especially a sex routine. It’s also a chance to explore other parts of your personalities which is meant to be fun, interesting, and exciting for both of you.
A MUST MENTION
Many role plays are based on hooking up with a stranger, cheating on each other, you on him, him on you, or you doing things you wouldn’t normally do, etc. Let there be no confusion here. None of these scenarios means you want to cheat, be cheated on, become a call girl, a nurse, or seduce the repairman. Role play is simply a form of escapism, and typically taboo situations create for very hot and exciting scenarios. It’s not reality in any way nor is it a reflection of what either of you truly desire. It’s just playful fantasy.
As you may know, most men are incredibly visual creatures who also happen to enjoy fantasizing. When the time is appropriate, ask your husband not if he has a fantasy but what his fantasy is. Take that information and run with it! There is absolutely nothing wrong with visually stimulating your man and helping him live out a fantasy. He’ll think your the coolest wife on the block for making his fantasies come true.